EP 20: How Praise Can Accidentally Ruin Your Child’s Life



 


Brian R King

Brian R King



Every expert on parenting will tell you how important it is to praise our children. Especially the children with Autism, ADHD or other challenges. However, in spite of our best intentions, the praise we use to empower our children can lead to increased stress that overloads them. Listen as Brian shares a story about a time this happened to his oldest son, and how they both learned that being proud is about so much more than whether or not you win.


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EP 20: How Praise Can Accidentally Ruin Your Child’s Life

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